So we went to the movies a couple of days ago with this guy I am seeing now. I am a big movie freak, I love movies, and I love going to the movies. I mean, if you love me, just take me to the movies like every week, and I'll feel we are doing things together. Really. (Yeah, and come to the gym with me, take me out to restaurants and clubs, and let's go to the beach too, lol)
This time though I've had a hard time enjoying the movie - Die Hard 4.0.
We were sitting in the last row of the theater on a midnight show. It looked like we were going to be the only couple back there, but another couple moved in on us last minute. We were kissing when they wanted to pass in front of us, so I felt a little shy about it which was answered by an extremely friendly smile from the girl who set down right next to me.
I thought she was really nice about it, and that I really liked her.
 
Well, that has changed soon. Real soon.
See as soon as the movie started this large set tall girl, who was wearing ALL white, suddenly turned over to her man , right down at his pants and started to move up and down.
"Wow", I thought to myslef "she isn't playing, is she". But you know, she smiled at me when I was kissing in public, and I am an experienced adult - I can take it, let  them have fun, right?
Yeah. I don't know what was the deal, but the girl came up after about two minutes, acting like nothing happened. I even felt almost sorry for the guy, who I thought came way too early. I don't judge him - after all it must be very exciting getting a blow job in a public place like that. But another five minutes passed, and there she goes again, going down on him! I thought she was giving him another chace to enjoy, but for my surprise this pettern was keep going on during the whole movie!
 
Now let me tell you, I am not a virgin, and I do think I am experienced in this field. I do know that it might be nice to be spoiled and kept arroused, liked and all for a while. I have nothing against sex in starnge places, especially when it doesn't have to be me ( I am not THAT open minded). But I just think that this was the most annoying thing that could happen to ME. I mean, OK kids, have your fun, go get a blow job, I am not goin gto say anything about it, but hey, do not ruin MY movie experience by your rudeness!
 
First of all, if you are going to do that to a guy in a dark public place, than PLEASE do not wear all white. I mean, you are glowing in the dark! Even if I don't want to stare, I just can't help that your 200 pound white ass is going up and down in the corner of my eyes!
I can pretend I don't see you for 5-10 minutes, and even be cool about it, but hey, why do I have to cover my eyes so I can enjoy the movie? C'mon!!!!!!
I mean, you are not 5'2 and 110 pounds - who has problems to be seen, didn't you realise that yet? Don't you have shame? Don't you care about other people?
 
Than I couldn't help thinking about the poor guy - does he really enjoy all this?
OK, so he was getting a blow job. But isn't the whole idea is to adventually "blow"? If he did during this hour and a half - two hours, than I KNOW he didn't need any more sucking there. If he didn't - cause he just never had enough time to get there - than OMG How annoying it must have been!!!!
 
Really, I've got to a point where I hated everything about the movie, I hated sitting there, I hated the guiy I went out with, and I just wanted to go home.
On the way home I asked my guy what he thought about it, but he was so much into the movie that he didn't even realise it all happened. About my concern he only said that some times it is nice to not cum, but just being spoiled.
OK.
REALLY? FOR HOURS? Don't you get to a point where you just have to explode? How long can that take?
 
Now I really want to know : would you want to get a sucky-licky spoiling treatment in a public place like that? Or in private - going on and off for hours without actually getting there?
 


Comments

  • silverwhisper said Aug 13, 2007...
    hm...tough to answer b/c the idea has some appeal to me, but the reality, as you experienced so vividly, is pretty darned rude and selfish. ed
  • slirpuff said Aug 13, 2007...
    After two hours there wouldn't be any skin left on it.... Doing it in a public place may add a little excitement to it because of the chance of getting caught... Public is one thing, but almost sitting in your lap is another.. Steve
  • ZsuzsiO said Aug 13, 2007...
    Aba Silver - See this is exacly what my dilemma was. I want to be that crazy, exciting chick who makes her man's wildest dreams come true - but on the other hand, do I have to do it on other people's account? I thought my sex in (and out of) the car in front of a synagouge was pretty wild, but I hope I did not force anyone to actually watch me. I know, I know, watching me might not have to be such a bad thing after all, but let's say maybe not in every case/   Slirpuff - so we do agree, right? you are funny - you soud like my type of guy - straight foward without the bullshit.
  • botoni said Aug 13, 2007...
    Public sex certainly has an appeal. Just the risk factors add excitement. I tend to prefer some privacy myself. The activity, for your benefit Zsuz, is called edging. It can be both enjoyable and annoying.
  • GreenTaz said Aug 13, 2007...
    It's really annoying... not to get there. And just as bad, not be able to enjoy a movie because someone else is having the time of his/her life at your expense.I love watching movies too and I'd hate it when people have to get it on in the movie house. A casual lip-lock or suck-cock would be OK but do they have to do it for the duration of the movie?! People are trying to watch a movie and not watch ogres playing with each other! Get a room and turn on the TV!I'm calm... :DNice post!
  • ZsuzsiO said Aug 13, 2007...
    botoni - see, I am a woman, so I have no idea how men like to be teased for hours just for the fun of it. In my case, if you go down under, you better take me all the way one way or the other, but if you gonna try to push it too far, I might just push you aside and get it done on my own. I can see how sex can be more exciting, and fun when the partners try to play a little, haivng a longer lasting sexual encourse. But enough is enough I say. Also, publicity could be fun at times, but I think the whole idea is to not to get caught. If I don't care about other people, I can really just do it in my own bedroom with the window open - if some one chooses to watch it's a plus, but I am not forcing any one to do so   Green Taz - I totally agree. Why do I have a feeling that if it was you, you'd probaly slapped her ever moving butt and yell at her "stop it already!"...? =]
  • Eilan said Aug 14, 2007...
    I'm just cheap.  I don't go to the theater unless there's a movie I really want to see; otherwise I wait for the DVD release.  If I paid for a movie ticket, then I'm gonna watch the movie.  Guess I'd be giving handjobs, then, wouldn't I? I don't have a problem in theory with public sex, but I think people ought to be smart about it, keep it away from anywhere kids might see it, etc.
  • Expendable said Aug 14, 2007...
    It's not a show if someone's not watching.
  • ZsuzsiO said Aug 14, 2007...
    Elian - he he. I think we are on the same page about that. I might be cheap too than. I'm thinking now, maybe I should spice up my relationship by giving him a hand job during the movie, but than again, if the movie is good we both wanna watch it. He didn't even realize that the big white cet was giving us a show right next to us because he was so into the movie. Imagine trying to open up his zipper, but instead of having fun with it, he'd get mad at you for bothering him! And believe me, my guy would probably do that, and than explane that there is some kind of religious connection between a good movie, and not having sexual pleasure in a theater...... Expendable - well, looking at your nick name, I guess I am not surprised about your reaction lol
  • GreenTaz said Aug 14, 2007...
    Nah... I wouldn't slap her. I'd talk to her in royal eloquence and ask her that if she wants to do it to her guy then she might as well do it to me for the price of the movie ticket-- in a room somewhere of course! LOL I'm just fooling around. I'm not a saint but I'm not hell's minion either. I'm just a guy who can be really passionate in bed or a movie house when nature calls-- who's remained a virgin for 24yrs. Enough said. :D
  • ZsuzsiO said Aug 14, 2007...
    24??????? Wow, and I thought my 17 was a big deal these days! But from what I see, people who didn't start early do have a rather higher sexual appetite.
  • GreenTaz said Aug 15, 2007...
    I guess 17 is a big deal in point of view because I'm on the conservative side.I'm open minded when it comes to sex but my principles lean towards being conservative but not traditional or religious. (I'm from the Philippines and I'm Catholic)It's OK with me if you engage in PMS or be liberated when it comes to your sexual appetite. I even have a high respect for those responsible people who practice safe sex or those those that engage in PMS and yet they stick to one. Not that I scorn those who like to hop from one bed buddy to another. If it makes you happy, then go for it. Life is shorter than most of us think.I think I sound like I need to get laid--nice and excruciatingly slow! LOLNot yet... I just hope I won't go beyond 25 without losing my "innocence"! ;-pAnd I hope that what you say is true--I'll have a higher sexual appetite when that time comes! LOL :D
  • Drifta said Aug 16, 2007...
    LOL!! Over the years I've gotten blow jobs from different girls in the movie threatre and have never thought twice about it exept how good is was :P And I would most definately do it again. The way I see it is fuck whoever dont like it.
  • TheKinkyCupcake said Aug 18, 2007...
    Zsu- Due to my idiot days, I can safely say the guy I was/am with would take either. We have a thing for exhibitionism and the risk is exciting. However, I think deep down any guy would take private long lasting over public quickie.
  • ZsuzsiO said Aug 18, 2007...
    Green Taz - are you telling me you still are a virgin? Drifta - I'm sorry babe, I think public sex can be fun, but at least don't be rude about it. TKC - I think you are right about that. Most guys would gladly go with the flow to get a nice treat during a movie, but it is much less than a wild night between the pillows. As a woman I think they want us to be able to give them both and keep it interesting. I don't know, I don't see myself giving or getting a head in front of people. But that's just me.
  • TheKinkyCupcake said Aug 18, 2007...
    Zsu - The thrill isn't as big as people make it out to be. Personally, I don't like being scared, listening and watching for people. I can't say what goes through their heads but I think guys don't worry because all they have to do is pull their shirt down or stuff it in really quick. 
  • simplyklo said Sep 4, 2007...
    I am sorry your movie experience was ruined and I can certainly understand why, but to answer your question,
  • salumetz said Oct 29, 2008...
    There's a lot going on here.  Zsu...you're right to be upset that your movie experience was wrecked by inconsiderate neighbors.  They can do what they want...but it shouldn't interfere with others' right to enjoy the flick.  That's the bottom line.  I'da been pissed too.  Also, are you in any way conflicted b/c your bf didn't seem upset that YOU were upset at the movie...I thought I picked up a vibe there?Okay....the edging thing.  As a male, I can tell you it can be quite a delight to go to the brink of explosion -- lean over the cliff and flail those arms w/o jumping off -- and them come back.  You stay in this very  aroused state...like being giddy drunk...yes, from personal experience you can maintain it for hours.  And you DO want to erupt...but you go as close to the edge and stop...it sure as h*%l intensifies the feelings and let me tell you, when you DO explode, atomic bombs go off...whistles blow...birds sing...and your eyes pop out of your head.  Ahem, time for me to take a cold shower.
  • TheNakedProfessor said Apr 10, 2009...
    Wow. I'm reaaaaally late to this party, but for future generations let me add my piece (heh). One of the most intriguing and stimulating BJs ever was given to me by a Jewish woman who engulfed my penis with her softened tongue and ever so gently swirled it slowly around and around and I was so hot I could hardly take it, but never driven quite to climax. It was amazing! I was semi-orgasmic for like 20 minutes. It was very satisfying without coming. That being said, another girl brought me to oral climax 4 times in one hour. It didn't take long, and she fondled me through recovery then blew me again. Afterwards I was still so horny I insisted on fucking her for a 5th climax. So, that couple could have been experiencing either of those things. Who knows? You probably should have started masturbating or hand-jobbing your dude. Maybe it could've turned into a foursome?
  • viking66 said Apr 5, 2010...
    If you were so offended, why didn't you change seats? Could it be that you were actually turned on, and that is the reason that you feel the need to blog about it? BTW, wanna go to a movie? LOL

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